1. Virginity equates to honour.
I grew up in a conservative community and my mom has always emphasised on virginity and purity. This caused me to remain a virgin until I met Mojujuju. Pretty sure I lost a few exes because I refused to have sex anyway ┐(´д｀)┌. However for some reason virginity only applies to girls and not boys? It’s fine for the boys to sleep with 100000 but the moment one of us are known to have ‘lost our flower’, suddenly we’re as trashy as it can be.
When I ‘lost my virginity’ to Mojujuju, it was… ugh… breathtaking in a way but also super underwhelming. I don’t know what I was expecting lol but… well… that’s it? So I’m… not a virgin anymore??! (╬ಠิ益ಠิ) What does this even mean??!
I don’t recommend sleeping around okay — (risk of STD lol). But I just think women should stop being brainwashed about virginity and how it ruins their ‘honour’. I think once they hit 25 especially (like me), it’s just pointless. I still do think that love making is something very intimate however, and is something that would truly affect you if you don’t carry it out with the right person. So ‘yes’ to careful selection of who you have sex with, ‘no’ to pushing virginity and honour concept.
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As much as I love cats, I’m rubbish at drawing them. 😑 I had a tough day as I wrote this, I’m always thankful for Chibi’s love.
When in doubt, get a cat.
I won’t deny that cats can be real arseholes but if you have true bond with them, their affection is no lesser than that of a dog’s.
I adopted Chibi 4 years ago together with late Tora (RIP) after I was diagnosed with depression. They weren’t therapy cats but instead extremely feral. Spending time with them however was more than just therapeutic. They ended up being the most affectionate life pals.
Talking about Tora really hurts me, so I’ll spare you the details. Chibi would spend every second with me if given the opportunity. She does have some kind of attitude, but she’s far from being a diva. Compared to typical cat stereotype, she is an extremely obedient girl.
Ah, just talking about Chibi cheers me up already. ❤️ I’m actually typing this with her on my lap!
Again, when in doubt, get a cat! 😂