This isn’t just a bowl of noodle,
This is a bowl of noodle Monday and I made together.
This is a bowl of our connection.
This is a bowl of memories.
This is a bowl, unlike any other.
This is a bowl we can’t get back to.
This is of a sacred time locked in a bowl.
I went for my workplace Christmas nightout yesterday evening and it was a bomb! I NEVER KNEW MY SECRETARIES COULD JIGGLE LIKE THAT!
So me and my limited dance moves just rinse and repeat throughout the entire night 😂😂🤣🤣🤣. It’s really sad that colleague half my age and twice my age all have better dance moves than I have… I really need to up my game 😭
On the other hand there is a coughing bug going around recently. I caught it and had some hard time really. I’m all better now though just with some cough left in me.
I’m really saddened with the news of violence and suffering in the middle East. The war in Ukraine is still not over yet either. I hope all countries around the world continue their best to maintain peace among each other and prevent the occurance of another world war.
I find war and violence so futile. We are all the same species and yet we can’t find a way to live and enjoy this current moment together? The sun could go into supernova soon and wipe the earth barren; and yet we are focusing on conquering and dominating. Everything in life as Buddha say is impermanent, the beauty and the suffering.
I recently took my RCGP exam in October. Hence I have been really busy. The good news is I passed guys!!! 😬 It was seriously surreal when I saw my results. I immediately started squealing outside of Lil’Tuesday’s nursery while trying to pick her up. There was a man lining up behind me when I did that so it was extremely embarrassing 🤣🤣🤣.
Continue reading “Don’t worry I passed!”Being the eldest daughter means being born with extra responsibility. At a young age, I was to rock my baby sister to sleep, to change her diapers, to watch over her.
And when my dad frequently work out of the state, I took over the role of a protector unknowingly. My mother went through a tough time, and I have watched her cried, comforted her, sang sad songs with her throughout.
Growing up being the eldest daughter in a traditional Asian family had molded me into who I am today. I look resilient, I take over care roles. I take up responsibility. And in many different circumstances, I am always ready to help.
Continue reading “My recurring curse.”Hello everybody! I haven’t updated because I’ve been really busy with my exams.
Mojuju has been really supportive. And I have my sister around to help out with the housework and the kids.
After my exams, I had a girls night out with his friends’ wives whom I made friends with. We stayed in the hotel together WITHOUT the husbands and kids!! Mojuju looked after both Monday and Tuesday on his own for the first time throughout the night so I can have my long deserved rest.
We had such an amazing time (without kids, wild and free 😂)
I was really impressed with Mojuju’s capability to look after BOTH kids on his own. He managed it really well! All the husbands gathered together with the kids so it wasn’t too bad. Apparently the kids had fun time playing together too 😂.
Do you know that beer pong is REALLY difficult? Also darts…… I really suck in darts…
Thank you Mojuju for everything you do for me ❤️
It’s been so long since you gave me flowers 😂 so I must show this off! 🤣😍
I found out that the smear campaign against me is still ongoing! I’m still living rent free in her head 😂😂😂
Sadly for her, the people she’s trying to sell the stories to, knows the real story behind it.
Even sadder is everyone is just pretending not to know including what she’s been talking about them behind (not surprising I’m not the only victim). And she really believes everyone are stupid enough to be manipulated by her when all they are doing is just entertaining her enough to stop her from badgering them.
But not me, because I’m done. There’s only so much I can take, and I hate gossips.
Not every elderly deserve your respect and kindness. Not everyone deserve a 100th chance. I think I gave enough chances, especially to someone who badmouth my parents and family!
Remember everyone, when you grow old, do not be a two faced hypocrite.
Can you believe that a 5 year old can actually get shingles?
All my life I thought it was an old people disease. I guess never say never: because my 21 year old sister also had recent activation of shingles only a few weeks ago!
Monday has been such a brave lad. (omg I sound so scouse saying that LOL). Anyone with shingles before knows just how painful it can be. He barely complains, only occasional whimper when he accidentally brushed it.
Seems like shingles is pretty mild in children, because his shingles cleared up in less than a week while it took my sister almost 3 weeks and she is STILL healing!
However because of the infectious nature of it (you can’t spread shingles but you spread chicken pox instead, which is the virus causing it), he was unable to attend school and his childminder as well as she has a baby who hasn’t had chicken pox before. I had to stay at home with him, and my manager told me to work from home.
Okay, I was told to work from home but also told that it’s normally not allowed 🤣🤣🤣😅 it’s so confusing. It made me feel really guilty… I actually lost sleep over it. I’ve been losing sleep over a lot of little things… I think my mental health is really wilting away. I’m trying to pick myself up quickly now!!! I starting doing qi gong exercises to free my mind. I’m trying to care less about the house, and trying to install flooring in our new extension because it’s one of those things that drives me crazy.
I also found out that I am carrying more duties than people who are paid the same salary and were the same grade as me, and bravely brought it up to the manager. To be fair… I found that out a month ago but I didn’t really say anything because I felt bad about it. I have 10 patients in the morning while others had only 6…. Maybe it doesn’t sound like a big difference but trust me, the time shortage is a LOOOOT different. BUT PLEASE CLAP FOR ME, BECAUSE I SPOKE UP. I SPOKE UP FOR MYSELF! I was told that it was a mistake that was overlooked. But it actually made me feel sad. I did felt like I was discriminated because…maybe… I’m… Not good enough..? But anyway I brought it up so that I won’t feel so stressed everyday for finishing late (it was slowly eroding my MH).
I never felt so anxious in my life before. Depressed? Sure….. I mean… I had SEVERE depressive episode needing hospitalisation… But this is different. I’m constantly worrying. I can’t sit still. I can’t sleep. I panic easily. I could feel my heart racing even now as I type. Wow I guess I really do have anxiety 🤣 BUT IT’S OKAY GUYS, I’m sure with exercise and meditation I will get better. It’s just a phase, and I will get through this unscathed!!
Our favourite girl has now turn two! I’d love to pass my crown as Princess Ichigo to Lil’Tuesday because not only she’s as sassy as I am was, she also loves strawberries as much as I did and loves posing with ’em strawberries!
Like the little bull she is, she is as stubborn as one but also as loving as one. She is currently STILL very attached to me. She finds me all the time the moment she comes home. She gets upset if I wasn’t at home and would start basically look through the entire house!!!
I was in the hospital seeing an ophthalmologist due to my new eye issue and Mojuju brought her home without me. She was crying by the door calling “mommy” all the time.
Despite turning two, she’s really not great at her speech. She learns fast, except with speech thought…. She does try but her pronunciation is just appalling 🤣😂. I’ve been trying to speak to her in mandarin too so I don’t repeat my failure with Mr. Monday…. And she does understand it well surprisingly!
I hope Lil’Tuesday continues to be the diva she is. I really hope that she always put herself first and never let patriarchy put her down. I love her to bits, and will always miss our nightly tickling moments.
Guysssss I’m officially old.
Not only I recently found my first strand of grey hair, but I have developed an eye condition needing LIFE LONG EYE DROPS like an old grandma 😭
Parts of my body is gonna start degrading before u know it. 😒😒😒😒
I never thought I’d write this, but for some reason my family got involved and I was pretty upset. But now my mind is clear and free, and if anybody is in the same sticky situation as me: I’m writing this post for you.
Recently I have decided to stop pretending not to know about the name calling and false rumour spread from a certain person. It started 5 years ago and to maintain an amicable relationship, I closed an eye and an ear. However recent events has really enlightened me that some people not only do not have conscience but also basic moral values: and really, keeping a distance is the best thing to do.
I have been called a narcissist, evil, toxic, Meghan Munny 😂 (this one is hilarious), and throughout, I just pretended as if I never knew. I really with all my heart wanted to maintain a good relationship. But what would you do if you were in the same situation?
I could, right now expose this person. I could really, right now, post all the evidence and proof that I have that would clear my name to those who have been affected by the lies told about me. I don’t think that person knew just how much evidence I have about him/her, or the fact that others have sent me other evidence because they know me better and many have even been victim of similar issue by the very same culprit.
Continue reading “What would you do if someone has been backstabbing and accusing you of something you did not do?”